6 Easy Ways to Make a Good First Impression
In almost all life situations, we want to leave a positive
impression with people when we first meet them. Whether you’re establishing a new
business contact or meeting your future in-laws for the first time, first
impressions matter. Remember, you never have a second chance to make a
first impression!
Follow these tips to
make a great and memorable first impression:
1.
Have a
pleasing appearance. Even though attractiveness is in the eye of the
beholder, it’s still important to look your best. Clean, wrinkle-free clothing,
brushed and styled hair, and light or no fragrance helps most people be at
their best. If you wear make-up, you know it doesn’t take much to enhance your
appearance.
2.
Make eye
contact and smile. In some cultures, making eye contact doesn’t indicate
good rapport. However, in American culture, people make positive connections
with each other by looking each other in the eyes. If you don’t, the person
you’re meeting for the first time may think you have something to hide!
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Also, a smile makes you look appealing and
friendly. You look more open to others when you’re smiling in a natural and
relaxed way.
3.
Pay
attention and listen. When you’re out in public or socializing at a party with
new people, distractions are bound to happen. But when you’re meeting someone
new, make an effort to pay attention and focus on what’s being said. When
you listen well, you show genuine interest in the person.
4.
Refer to
the new acquaintance by name. In most situations, it’s beneficial to you to
be seen as focused, a good listener, and polite. Using the new person’s name in
your conversation helps accomplish all of these things. Plus, using their name
will help you remember it later.
5.
Initiate
conversation with a positive comment. Making a positive impression means that
people will have good thoughts when they remember you by something you did or
said. Consider these examples of ways to start a verbal exchange with a new
acquaintance:
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“Sharon, I saw the drawings you did for the
local Boys’ Club campaign. They’re amazing. How did you come up with such an
incredible visual?”
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“Kevin, I heard from Julie that you’re quite the
fisherman. Where are the good fishing spots around here?”
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“Pam, Bill always speaks so highly of the work
you do. How long have you been working at the James Corporation?”
6.
Be
sincere. Be yourself whenever first meeting someone. People tend to sense
when others are putting up a front or behaving in ways that aren’t natural for
them. Being genuine is a quality everyone wants to see. If you’re sincere, your new
acquaintance will sense that.
Because you never know what might blossom between you and a
new acquaintance, put in the effort to make a positive first impression. Try
some of the tips above or think about techniques that may have worked for you
in the past. You’ll make a great first impression and perhaps even pave the way
for a successful business venture or a life-long friendship.
6 Easy Ways to Make a Good First Impression
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